This weekend, two of Thomas’ aunts, Kerri and Evelyn, and his cousin Rachel, were able to make the drive down from Nashville and spend some time with him. This is what they wanted everyone to know:
We got to spend some sweet time with Jim and Virginia while visiting Thomas for the first time since the accident this weekend. As a bonus, Daniel was able to come down from college for the weekend too. It was good to be able to see Thomas with our own eyes and make our own (albeit unprofessional) assessment. We were able to meet his doctors and many nurses that have been taking such excellent care of Thomas. The Marcus Stroke and Neuroscience Center is top-notch and we could not ask for a more knowledgeable staff. It is overwhelming to see Thomas in the condition he is in, but the staff is incredible when it comes to explaining every little detail and answering all the questions we could possibly think of to make us feel at ease.
While we were there, Thomas was slowly being eased off the sedatives and continues to be able to move a little more. We were there when Thomas was told to open his eyes, and they fluttered open to about an eighth of an inch. He even started scratching his nose. It was so incredible to witness! And it was such a God thing that it happened when it did so that we, as family, could be there and see it and celebrate this victory with Jim, Virginia, and Daniel. We know the road ahead will be filled with ups and downs, but we are thankful for every step forward.
Thomas does hear us and we enjoyed being able to talk to him. We kept telling him about all the people that are thinking of and praying for him. We told him about the hundreds of cards that are sitting on his windowsill. Just reading a few of those brought tears to my eyes. To know that he is so loved and is being lifted up to our Savior by so many people is awesome! Of course, I also had a little fun constantly “reminding” him that I’m his favorite cousin.
Thomas does have a long road ahead of him, but we will be taking this day by day, week by week. We are reminding ourselves that, “Because of the LORD’s great love, we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)
We want to thank from the bottom of our hearts, with our sincerest gratitude for all the people who have lifted Thomas and our family up in their prayers. I don’t think we’ll ever know this side of heaven, just how many people are praying for him. God has His hands all in this situation. He has been bringing just the right person at the right time into Jim, Virginia, Daniel, and Thomas’ lives. He is orchestrating this entire situation and our hope and trust remain in Him. Please don’t stop praying for Thomas and his complete recovery. Also, pray for Jim, Virginia and Daniel to find rest and remain hopeful. Pray that our strength be renewed and that the peace that surpasses all understanding fills our lives.
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Rachel A. Sowell